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looking for affection and discipline

Age 43 From Wilson, Connecticut Online Over 2 weeks ago

Man Seeking A Man


Basic Information Tell us a bit about yourself.
  • I Can Speak English
  • I Would Describe Myself As It's easy to make adjective lists. I'm clever, thoughtful, sensitive, and curious. I learn very quickly and love order and structure and discipline.

    I also cook, read, keep to myself, and, occasionally, watch a nerdy tv show or play a fantasy video game. My tastes are eclectic, but I also like a lot of things.

    I'm looking for a dom, my age or older (but not over 45), to help break me out of my shell. I know who I am, and the core of me is nearly unshakable. People around me see great things in me I have yet to fully believe, though.

    Ugh. This makes me sound like a project. I think this is where I add the tag, "but I'm really awesome."

    Right.

    Not into humiliation. I'm too smart to be belittled or abused. I'm submissive and approval-seeking, but I know when to push back.
  • Sign Gemini
Appearance & Situation What's your present situation? Describe your appearance.
  • My Body Type Is Average
  • My Height Is 5' 9 (1.75 m)
  • My Eyes Are Blue
  • My Ethnicity Is Caucasian
  • My Marital Situation Is Single
  • I Have Kids No
  • I Want Kids Yes
  • My Best Feature Is Hands
  • Body Art Strategically Placed Tattoo
  • My Hair Is Brown
  • I Have One Or More Of These No pets
  • Willing To Relocate Yes
Status What do you do?
  • My Education Level Is College Degree
  • My Current Employment Status Is Full-time
  • My Speciality Is Food / Catering
  • My Job Title Is AGM of local bakery/sandwich shop
  • I Make This Much In A Year $15,000USD To $29,999USD
  • I Live With Roomate(s)
  • At Home Friends Come Over Often
  • I'm A Smoker No
  • I Drink No
Personality How do you act? What are your tastes?
  • Back In High School, I Was A Nerd
  • My Social Behavior Is Reserved, Shy, Observant, Dark, Strange
  • My Interest And Hobbies Are Arts & Crafts, Reading, Learning, Music, Movies, Games, Family, Theater, Cooking
  • My Idea Of A Great Time Is Hanging Out With Friends, Going Shopping, Staying At Home, Relaxing, Sleeping, Reading A Book, Playing Video Games, Going To A Concert, Going To A Museum
  • An Ideal First Date Would Be Meetings are always nervy things that are made better with things to do. Going to a craft-y place and painting ceramics could do that. Meeting for coffee? Bring a crossword. Going on a walk? Head to a mall (indoor or out) and do some window shopping. Movies take a little long, but performances can have discussion entry points. Museums are awesome.
  • I've Always Wanted To Try There are lots of things I want to learn. I don't consider that trying.

    I don't know. I'm usually a little hesitant, both in jumping right in, and in opening up to saying exactly what I want.
  • My Friends Describe Me As Being Friendly, Cool, Obscure
Views Views on life.
  • My Religion Is Jewish
  • I Attend Services Never
  • My Political Views Are Socialist
  • My Goal In Life Is I want to be happy and confident, at peace.

    Roll your eyes if you want.
  • My Kind Of Humor Is Clever, Dry / Sarcastic
Taste What do you like?
  • On Tv, I Always Watch I Don't Like Tv
  • When I Go To The Movies, I Always Go To See A Science Fiction, Romance, Drama, Animation
  • When Listening To Music, I Always Listen To Rock, Pop, Classical, Jazz, Folk
  • When I Read, I Always Read Fantasy, Fiction, Poetry
  • My Idea Of Fun Is -a walk to nowhere in particular
    -puzzle solving, in teams
    -culinary experimentation
    -witnessing a live performance of good art (whatever form that takes)
    -being in good company... even if the expression of that is cleaning, doing laundry, going on errands...
    (I often equate fun and happy, and happy, for me, is a peaceful thing.)
Looking for What are you looking for in your soulmate?
  • What Do You Find Attractive? Boldness, Wit, Thoughtfullness
  • What Do You Look For? Balance. Does that make sense? A real person. A dom who's strong, but not in an aggressive, puffed-up kind of way. Someone smart enough to keep up with me, but who doesn't turn it into a competition. Thoughtful, charming, attractive, sure. But it's about warmth, confidence, ease. Older is usually better. Don't ask me why, but dark hair and glasses has always been my thing. And guys named Chris, but that's just one of the awkwardnesses of life.
  • What Kind Of Relationship Are You Seeking? Committed

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